....We're so fucked.
Dumpling: condoms. Seriously. Even if you did the "test, then wait 6 months" what if he did something with someone else in the meantime? That resets the waiting period. In my experience, most men say they are monogamous even when it isn't true. Be careful.
hah.. I couldn't see my last edit & I was like.. oh noez.. where did that post to...? I had several windows open, perhaps I posted to RWW instead? How weird would that be if some random comment about condoms showed up in an entirely unrelated thread? So, whew! Glad to see it showed up here after all. lol. Hi Dumpling! :-D and Hi Ty! (this is Ty's page, right?)
The only piece of sage advice I ever inherited from my mother is "if you can't be good, be careful".
Out of curiosity, what was some bad advice she gave?